Our online spark grew into a steady flame, fueled by countless hours of conversation. As Obembe mentioned, spending 2-3 hours daily talking to someone wasn’t typical for him, but with me, it felt effortless.
Her View:
September held a special significance. Not only was it my birthday month, but it also marked the turning point in our connection. Obembe surprised me with a beautiful motion graphics video for my birthday, a thoughtful gesture that warmed my heart.
By then, I knew I cared for him deeply. However, fresh out of a heartbreak, I craved caution. When he expressed his feelings through a video call on September 18th, his past stance against long-distance relationships made me hesitate. I wasn’t sure if I was ready to dive in again.
His View:
Looking back, the “no long-distance relationships” rule I held onto felt increasingly flimsy with each passing day. The connection with Temilade was undeniable. Celebrating her birthday felt like the perfect time to express my feelings, even if it meant venturing into uncharted territory. Understanding her hesitation, I respected her request for time to consider my proposal.
Her View:
Those three days were filled with introspection. The conversations we shared, the way he understood me on a deeper level – it all brought a sense of peace I hadn’t felt before. On September 21st, I knew my answer.
Both Views:
With a resounding “yes,” our official love story began. The miles separating us couldn’t dampen the joy of this new chapter. We embraced the challenge of a long-distance relationship, navigating time zone differences and the yearning to be physically together.
December 2022 finally brought the moment we’d both been eagerly anticipating. My return to Nigeria meant our first in-person meeting. Stepping off the plane and seeing Obembe waiting for me was a surreal experience. The butterflies from our online conversations transformed into the comforting warmth of a long-lost friend’s embrace. It felt like coming home.